Karen Kubicko

Psychic Intuitive – Author – Past Life Regression Hypnotherapist – Instructor

Warning! Danger! Signs of Abusive Relationships: 16 Characteristics That Might Identify a Potential Batterer

Chapter 18 is, to me, the most important chapter in my book, Making True Love—Healing Relationship Patterns Through Past Life Regression. In the next several posts, a gift from my heart to you, are the lists found in Chapter 18 of Making True Love.

Please read through these lists to find some insight in, hopefully, a past relationship. These lists are to help you become acutely aware of abusive relationship warning signs.

If you are in an abusive relationship currently, I hope this motivates you or inspires you to find the courage to stand your ground, take your confidence back, and leave.

16 CHARACTERISTICS THAT MIGHT IDENTIFY A POTENTIAL BATTERER

  1. Does he/she report having been physically or psychologically abused as a child?
  2. Was his/her mother battered by the father?
  3. Has he/she been known to display violence against other people?
  4. Does he/she play with guns and use them for protection against other people?
  5. Does he/she lose his/her temper frequently and more easily than seems necessary?
  6. Does he/she commit acts of violence against objects and things rather than people?
  7. Does he/she drink alcohol excessively?
  8. Does he/she display an unusual amount of jealousy when you are not with him/her? Is he/she jealous of significant other people in your life?
  9. Does he/she expect you to spend all of your free time with him/her or to keep him/her informed of your whereabouts?
  10. Does he/she become enraged when you do not listen to his/her advice?
  11. Does he/she appear to have a dual personality?
  12. Is there a sense of overkill in his/her cruelty or in his/her kindness?
  13. Do you get a sense of fear when he/she becomes angry with you?
  14. Does NOT making him/her angry become an important part of your behavior?
  15. Does he/she have rigid ideas of what people should do that are determined by male or female sex-role stereotypes?
  16. Do you think or feel you are being battered? If so, the probability is high that you are a battered person and should seek help immediately.

These clues are certainly not definite signs that a man or woman is a batterer, only that he/she has the potential to become one.

From a project conducted by SAFE House in Michigan

Just because you might have had a past life with them, it does not mean that the relationship is “mean to be”. It can mean that you are still learning a hard lesson again with them… including standing up for yourself.

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